It’s work – earlies at the moment. Went to Riga and Derry (Ireland) yesterday, been to Rome today. Got back ten minutes early today which is unusual from Ciampino as the handling there is quite slow. I think I got a few hours sleep last night. My flatmate’s Spanish girlfriend seems incapable of closing a door without slamming it. The bathroom is next to my bedroom and I lost count as to how many times she visited same last night. I am on the verge of asking her to close the door quietly as there’s hardly anything worse than being on an early and not getting quality sleep.
I have been in the flatshare here in Liverpool for a year now. It’s worked out quite well really until my flatmate’s girlfriend appeared on the scene. Before she arrived my flatmate did his washing up. But not long after she moved in (that seems to be what’s happened) I came back from work at the kitchen looked like Armageddon had arrived with virtually every utensil used and unwashed. My initial reaction was “Why should I do their washing up, I will only do mine!” But then one of my beliefs in life is that what you give out comes back a million fold – not always from the direction you might expect it but, as they say, what goes around comes around. So I spent 20 minutes or so restoring the kitchen to an acceptable state. I did this on a couple of occasions and it seems to have paid off since, although by no means perfect, the pair of them are now in the main doing their washing up. But what staggers me is that neither of them has acknowledged that I sometimes do their washing up or even thanked me. My flatmate hardly ever speaks and I wonder even whether they have an agenda to try and get me to leave which I have no intention of doing until my tour of duty at Liverpool has finished.
Ciampino and back is quite a nice day’s work, not too long and not too short. The thing which affects me job more than anything is who I am flying with. We have a huge range of nationalities, experience levels and backgrounds who fly for the company. It’s inevitable that you get on with some more than others. Also, but not exclusively, when you are flying with a newbie (and I was there myself once) you need to keep a fatherly eye on what they are up to.
Some aspects of human nature amuse and puzzle me. After I had landed today there were 3 voice messages on my mobile home from a guy who is laying a new driveway at my house. People just don’t seem to understand that I cannot talk to them on my mobile phone when I am flying! This is the company with whom I paid a deposit in July and told me there was a 4 month lead time before the job could be done. Now it’s six months and they seem to want to get the job done in record time but I need to decide what pattern and colour I want. They are ringing later tonight so plans can be finalised.
Have been to the gym as I was finished at work by 1 pm. As well as my usual cardiovascular 40 min workout on the cross trainer I did a 5 km run (in 30 mins) which went really well. A quick shop at M & S for some food and back to the flat to sort out and cooked myself some pasta which was nice. All is quiet at the flat but wait with baited breath for the return of James (my flatmate) and his scatty girlfriend who leaves things strewn all over the place.
Tomorrow I have a 0615 take off to go to Limoges (central France) and back and Krakow (Poland) and back – we should arrive back at Liverpool at 1625. It always amuses me the way some guys come in to work and utter some incantation such as “It’s a long day today” to which I often say “How can we make it feel shorter and more enjoyable” because you see everytime they incant “It’s a long day today” they are programming their unconscious mind to bring this into their reality. OK yes being on duty for nearly 12 hours (or longer sometimes due to delays etc) can be challenging but I basically enjoy my job even when I am feeling tired. It’s a bit like when I go through security before going airside I often say to the security personnal “What a great day!” – they often think I am referring to the weather but I am not! Now don’t get me wrong security personnel have all my sympathies – it’s not a job I would want or relish. But when I ask many of them “How’s it going?” they say “Well it’ll be ok in 2 hours”. I pretend not to understand and say “What’s happening in 2 hours then?” and they reply “I’ll be going home then”. Then I think (but don’t say) “What’s up, don’t you like you job then?”. Now there are even some aspects of my job I don’t like but if you are doing it there is no point in being miserable or making it worse than it actually is. Then sometimes I say “Well you cannot change the weather but you can adjust your sails accordingly” Once again they often think I mean the weather! This morning I added “And I am NOT talking about the weather! – I AM talking about life”. What with all the news about the economy at the moment things don’t look that good BUT there is little you or I can do to change the economy. BUT we can change our ATTITUDE to what’s going on – in fact I believe that attitude (one’s own that is) is the ONLY thing we have really got control over. Compared to many in the world we are vastly rich in almost every way. I am not living in Iraq wondering whether a car bomb will go off as I walk down the street or Gaza worrying about when the Israeli jets are going to start bombing again! Do you or I have challenges? Of course we do, EVERYONE does! But my Dad used to say to me “Count Your Blessings, Son!” When I was younger this statement used to infuriate me but now I realise how right he was. In fact, years ago I started making a list of everything in my life that I was thankful for. After a while I started writing down things like air to breath, water to drink, flowers and trees to marvel at, good friends etc. There is SO MUCH we often take for granted – as Tony Robbins says human beings are “deletion creatures”.
Well it’s time to prepare for another early start. Will set the “opportunity clock” for 0415. I call it the opportunity clock (the herd call it the alarm clock) because every day I wake up I have another opportunity to live life to the full.